The internet is full of opportunities but also risks. To protect our children, it is important to understand the potential dangers and take proactive steps.
1. Open communication is key
- Talk regularly: Don’t wait for a problem to arise. Have ongoing conversations about the internet, just like you talk about school or friends.
- Ask questions: Show interest in your child’s online activities. Ask which websites they visit, who they communicate with, what games they play, etc.
- Explain the risks: Talk about dangers such as inappropriate content, online bullying, identity theft, and misinformation.
- Be honest: Admit that you don’t know everything about the internet and that you’re learning together.
2. Setting rules and boundaries
- Time spent online: Set limits on how much time your child can spend on the internet, taking into account their age, school obligations, and other activities.
- Content: Talk about the types of content appropriate for their age and establish rules about what they are allowed to watch, listen to, or play.
- Social media: If your child uses social networks, make sure they understand privacy and safety rules. Teach them not to share personal information with strangers and to be cautious when posting photos and other content.
- Online shopping: If your child has access to online purchases, set clear rules about what they are allowed to buy and how much they can spend.
Sign a family agreement:
https://cnzd.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Obiteljski-ugovor_sigurnost-na-internetu-Put-oporavka-2024.pdf
(available in Croatian)
3. Parental control tools
Built-in options: Most devices (computers, smartphones, tablets) have built-in parental control options. Explore these features and adjust them to your needs.
Third-party apps: There are many apps offering advanced features such as content filtering, activity tracking, screen time limits, and device location. Some popular ones include:
- Google Family Link: A free app that allows parents to monitor their child’s activity on Android devices, set screen time limits, and approve app downloads.
- Qustodio: A paid app with advanced features including web content filtering, call and message tracking, and geolocation.
- Net Nanny: A paid app offering content filtering, time limits, and monitoring of social media activity.
- Game consoles: All major gaming consoles (PlayStation, Xbox, Nintendo) have built-in parental control features. Learn about them and adjust the settings accordingly.
4. Education and setting an example
- Learn together: The internet is constantly changing, so it is important to stay informed about new trends and threats.
- Be a role model: Children learn by example. Show them how to use the internet responsibly and safely.
- Stay informed: Follow websites like https://www.csi.hr/ where you can find useful information and safety tips.
5. What to do If problems arise
- Save evidence: If your child experiences online bullying or discomfort, save the evidence (screenshots, messages).
- Report the issue: Talk to your child and report the problem to the appropriate institutions (school, police, Safer Internet Centre).
- Seek help: If necessary, seek professional help (psychologists, social workers, etc.)
Remember, internet safety is a complex topic. Talk with your children, be present and informed, and use the tools available to you.
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